Series: Does it ever seem like every couple around you has it all together, while you can't even agree on what's for dinner? Wanna know the secret?
Today: Happy now and after couples decide they owe each other everything but are owed nothing in return. But that requires effort. Every married person makes a choice every day. That choice feels more like a reaction, so most people don't think they have a choice at all. But they do. Happy couples make the happy choice.