Do you want to get well?

Jesus met a man at the pool of Bethesda and asked him this question, "Do you want to get well?" Depending on how you hear the heart of Jesus is the way you will hear this question. What do we do when we are trying our best to get better or make our situation better, but nothing seems to work? "I'm trying Jesus! I really am. I just can't." What do we do when we get to this point of frustration and disappointment?